Re: Foreplay what does it mean to men vs.women?!?!?
We are kind of reversed in this area. Although my wife enjoys it, she really does not need it for her to have an orgasm. She usually gets there pretty quickly (she will often finish before I do). I, on the other hand, could take hours at love-play. It could be anything like cuddling on the couch naked and watching a movie, watching home-made sex vids. One thing I love to do is give her an orgasm orally, then she will use her mouth and hands on me to slowly bring me close to orgasm by teasing me for a while. After that she will get on top, still teasing me very slowly. Finally, when I know she is ready for another one, I will suck her cute little tits and we will both explode in orgasm.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)