@ThisIsAUserName mentioned this in his birth control thread and I wanted to go deeper... Pun intended
For guys, how does the pleasure of sex compare when wearing a condom versus not wearing a condom?
For gals, how is pleasure impacted when your lover wears a condom? What is your perception of how your husband/partner feels about it?
I know BadSanta will chime in with "the ultra thin foreign condoms are the best!"... ok, got it BadSanta
I'll start with myself. I used condoms until we were married. Trojan Sensitive or something, although I have tried a wide variety. Sex was ok, but masturbation was better. The only reason to have sex was to feel the connection and to satisfy my libido. When I climax with the condom on, the first muscle contraction feels good, but the following ones actually hurt because the tip of the condom gets filled with semen. So, the orgasm would get snuffed out right after starting. What happens next is that the condom and filled tip basically blocks further ejaculation and the pressure of the semen getting forced back in causing pain proximal to the base of my penis. Is this normal? I think I was using it right? Maybe I ejaculate an unusually large volume of semen..? I tried to leave extra condom at the tip to help, but during sex, it would always get packed down tight from the thrusting. And, I never felt like I had enough awareness to time it so that I could get out and take off the condom in time, so I could ejaculate elsewhere. To be honest, for me, sex with a condom is really a crappy experience. Do others have this experience?
But without condoms, sex was amazing. It's really quite different. The unimpeded ejaculation (like masturbation) and the loving connection is an awesome combo.
But, when I hear women consider condoms as a long term solution during marriage, it makes me wonder whether women are aware that sex with condoms can be terrible for a man. Maybe it's men's fault for not saying anything...
For guys, how does the pleasure of sex compare when wearing a condom versus not wearing a condom?
For gals, how is pleasure impacted when your lover wears a condom? What is your perception of how your husband/partner feels about it?
I know BadSanta will chime in with "the ultra thin foreign condoms are the best!"... ok, got it BadSanta
I'll start with myself. I used condoms until we were married. Trojan Sensitive or something, although I have tried a wide variety. Sex was ok, but masturbation was better. The only reason to have sex was to feel the connection and to satisfy my libido. When I climax with the condom on, the first muscle contraction feels good, but the following ones actually hurt because the tip of the condom gets filled with semen. So, the orgasm would get snuffed out right after starting. What happens next is that the condom and filled tip basically blocks further ejaculation and the pressure of the semen getting forced back in causing pain proximal to the base of my penis. Is this normal? I think I was using it right? Maybe I ejaculate an unusually large volume of semen..? I tried to leave extra condom at the tip to help, but during sex, it would always get packed down tight from the thrusting. And, I never felt like I had enough awareness to time it so that I could get out and take off the condom in time, so I could ejaculate elsewhere. To be honest, for me, sex with a condom is really a crappy experience. Do others have this experience?
But without condoms, sex was amazing. It's really quite different. The unimpeded ejaculation (like masturbation) and the loving connection is an awesome combo.
But, when I hear women consider condoms as a long term solution during marriage, it makes me wonder whether women are aware that sex with condoms can be terrible for a man. Maybe it's men's fault for not saying anything...