Re: Avoiding nonsexual intimacy - because it is too arousing
This is a good post as my life is like these posters!
I'm constantly playing up my wife and her looks, how I still adore her like when we first met, hold her hand, shower hugs, complement that although were both ageing I still desire her body and mind and all I get in return as to compliments is an occasional nice buns ................. (Were 68 and 66yrs old respectively)
I could use more comments and suggestions from her to boost my ego and lead to naked cuddling but now I am begining to think from these posts that she is withholding so that it won't lead to sex. (I'm very easily turned on BTW)
She has medical problems that limits PIV sex to a couple times a year and I understand that completely, but she doesn't lead at all to cuddling or spooning. I'm always the one to pursue these desires.
I'm going to talk to her about these ideas as posted above and maybe work it out.