Re: The strange case of Ms Uhtred's sex life.
I agree that there are dangers of misery from open marriages - but these extreme cases of HD/LD mismatch are pretty miserable too. If precautions are taken, I don't know that the risks are really so bad. It seems like it would go a long way towards reducing the stress on both people in a mismatch.
[QUOTE=2020hindsight;16891169]First, my response to your brushing off the dangers associated with adultery. The dangers are all real, and they do happen to people and bring a lot of misery. Vasectomies fail. People get infected. Affair partners get crazy and do awful things. I can't live with those kind of risks. I'm something of a worrywart even without all of that.