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Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thread)
Most women aren’t able to have a vaginal orgasm during intercourse. This means it’s up to him or her to manually stimulate her clitoris to make sure she has an orgasm.
Unfortunately once intercourse starts, there’s too much going on and not enough coordination or continued focus for him or her to worry about keeping constant stimulation on her clitoris.
However, if no one is doing it, then she's probably not getting there and may be forced to fake it... Not fair and not fun for either party.
So whose job is it to get her off? Him or her? How about neither of you...
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Re: Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thr
It is both of our responsibilities. It is my job to know her and what she needs. It is her job to tell me. After 39 years I know which positions are best for her, but not every position works every time so she needs to tell me (which she does). Sometimes during oral I hit the spot right away (and there is no mistaking that!!) other times I need some guidance. There are also times (rare) that she is having a hard time because of tiredness or pain in her shoulders where she will say, "you go ahead." She is fine with that; she does not need to orgasm every time (which is something that I am finally OK with).
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Re: Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thr
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Originally Posted by nice777guy
Women can orgasm?!?!
Posted via Mobile Device
"I am here to dispel the myth of the female orgasm. It doesn't exist and I can prove it. I have been with hundreds of women and not one of them has ever had an orgasm."
Re: Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thr
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Originally Posted by ChelleDiane
LOL... Don't build the fence.... if he's gonna do the dirty job of bringing those lonely american housewives to orgasm.
Edit - okay, that was bad. I was only joking.. Seriously I don't condone
someone other that herself or her husband bringing her to the orgasm. But... I think it is perfectly acceptable if she does NOT orgasm each time.
Whose job it is to bring a woman to orgasm during sex? Him or her? (Sponsored Thread) 
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