Re: Any Other "Married Man Sex Life" Readers?
I really think that the whole point of "flirting" was to wake up the other partner; to shock them into the reality of, yes I might lose him or her. There is great danger in marriage when we say she/he will never leave me. I need to be a great combination of alpha and beat to my wife. I need to help around the house, take her a cup of tea in the morning, constantly tell her how much I love her, do the laundry, etc. while taking the lead in our relationship and making the sex so hot that she would not even THINK of looking elsewhere.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)