Re: Its me again! Wife had EA and no longer wants sex
You are missing the point?
First, it is emotional blackmail.
Second, why would you consider where it goes? That is an exercise in compromising what you feel to be incredibly important. In other words, subverting something you feel to be immensely important in order to protect the reputation of your WW; allowing someone else to be exposed to continued hurt; to be exposed to STD's; to be lied to.
You are enabling that, and if you can look yourself in the mirror while it happens, knowing you have the ability to give the truth to someone, I think you need to do a character assessment.
Her demanding such, and you enabling such, is the epitome of selfishness.
"Our ability to feel joy is directly related to how much pain we are willing to feel." - Mavash.
"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for." - Bob Marley