Ok folks, I'm looking to get some advice on a rather difficult situation I've found myself in. So my wife and I have den married since 2010, we met in 2004 and we're both in our early thirties. From the start of our relationship I had always been very clear with her that I enjoy giving oral sex. She was always ok with it and early on seemed to enjoy it, but soon she was never excited about it and would only participate if I brought it up. As the years went by more and more she has refused to let me perform oral on her, and the times she did, it was for mere minutes at a time ... about a year ago after fighting about this issue she reveals to me that she has never enjoyed receiving oral sex, she does not like the feeling and is uncomfortable with how it makes her feel self conscious despite the fact that I tell her how much I enjoy her and her body. I'm feeling trapped, tricked into a marriage with a sex life I did not want. I voiced these concerns and she had nothing to offer...what do I do?