Re: I don't understand women in this regard
The thing I find funny is that it almost seems as if the OP believes that women couldn't possibly understand the feeling of an orgasm achieved via oral yet....women have more nerve endings in their tiny little clit than men do in the entire head of their penis. I'm not saying that we enjoy our orgasms more, I'm simply saying that *everyone* man or woman enjoys being pampered abit. But oral isn't the only outlet for that.
My husband is actually tongue tied (the flap of skin under his tongue goes all the way to the tip of his tongue so he is not physically able to stick his tongue out, he had to have speech therapy to learn to talk, has a slight lisp, and has difficulty with certain tongue-related activities, such as eating icecream or giving oral sex. Its possible for him to do, but incredibly painful none the less.
If I had your mentality about the only way he could show me adoration would be through oral, then our relationship would have been doomed from the start.
*This is coming from a woman who can count on one hand the number of times her husband has ever gone down on her, however still offers him a blowjob (to completion) at least once a month and usually also spends some time kissing his penis before intercourse almost everytime we have intercourse (which is not nearly as often as she wishes it was, but still).