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I think Brighteyes was alluding to the fact that most civilizations before ours, especially the Greeks, considered penises to be something that should be minimized in art, not worshipped, while a woman's breast was considered nurturing, and beautiful. That's why the statues in the National Museum of Art have small penises. To the Greeks and virtually all societies other than our own, the focus on large penises was inversely proportional to intelligence.
Why do I feel the guilty desire to declare that I'm really stupid at this moment? Go figure!
The more important the man, the smaller the penis had to appear in statues as it was considered vulgar and detracting from his other features.
Ok, then what about Codpieces? Royalty used to stuff theirs so that it would be the BIGGEST and therefore the BEST.
That was a different time. The Court of Versailles didn't exactly reign supreme in the intelligence department....therefore they had to pronounce their members.
I have always wanted to try that but I hear its not worth it unless you wax first. My experiences getting waxed have never turned out well. Lets just say the last time I went in for a wax, I left needing antibiotics. Time before that, chick didn't know what she was doing and took a bunch of my skin off. - If I can ever find a salon that does a decent Brazilian, then I am so going to try bedazzling, just for kicks and giggles. In the mean time, I'm a daily shaver to stay smooth so the stones would probably not work out so well. :'(
I have always wanted to try that but I hear its not worth it unless you wax first. My experiences getting waxed have never turned out well. Lets just say the last time I went in for a wax, I left needing antibiotics. Time before that, chick didn't know what she was doing and took a bunch of my skin off. - If I can ever find a salon that does a decent Brazilian, then I am so going to try bedazzling, just for kicks and giggles. In the mean time, I'm a daily shaver to stay smooth so the stones would probably not work out so well. :'(
I shave. I never did...I used to just trim it up very short, but I offered to do it one day and haven't grown it back since.
ALL I want to add to this thread is... when I didn't worship my husbands penis, poor man , he went 19 years with that gift lying dorment.... he was not as HAPPY deep within.... he even felt less loved...so I learned when I started asking questions.
What I see here with such threads is ...the same feelings as my quiet suffering husband had - but much more forthcoming, such words may even come off as demanding, expecting too much. Women will always have an appreciation for the sexually silent suffering man who puts himself down. But that is why he continues to suffer! that is no good either.
Now that I do "worship" my husband's penis, he is estatic and frankly, so am I.... He feels ovewhelmingly loved now. Love it, can't get enough , we joke about my worship. I wish I was this way my whole da** marraige.... and if I was a guy, I would likely feel the same & get my butt chewed for speaking about it, cause I am not the silent suffering type.
On the other end, I am thrilled my husband wants to be in between my legs and has enthusiam about it. --and I can't even orgasm that way but WANT it anyhow!!
There is just something overtakingy beautiful about our lovers wanting every part of our body, some of us feel strongly about this --I won't belittle that. It is all encompasing and we crave it...
For me, there is just no measure on what happiness this brings to a spouse, it satisfys the soul somehow.
I shave. I never did...I used to just trim it up very short, but I offered to do it one day and haven't grown it back since.
Yes, it was very painful.
I've actually never had a bush, ever. When I was about 12-13 and I started noticing hair growing down there, I was very confused because no one ever told me about pubic hair. But I knew that women grew armpit and leg hair at puberty, and that socially we were expected to shave both, so I kinda just assumed that I was supposed to shave my pubic hair as well. I didn't have a mother nor a female figure in my life who I could ask so I just took a guess and went with it. I tried growing it out at one point a few years ago (I was pregnant and shaving was difficult) but the hair was just so uncomfortable. I don't know how women can stand having that there, so I figured out a way to shave despite my basketball pregnant belly in the way. (Lets just say that prenatal yoga and a hand mirror came in useful.)
I hate having pubic hair. If I could afford to have it all removed permanently I would. I can't shave it though or I get MAJOR ingrowns, and waxing has never worked well for me, no matter who does it.
OMG why did I stay a way from this thread after I posted? It's freaking hilarious! You guys are cracking me up.
I love love LOVED Catherine's post!!!
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Originally Posted by UnwantedWife
The thing I find funny is that it almost seems as if the OP believes that women couldn't possibly understand the feeling of an orgasm achieved via oral yet....women have more nerve endings in their tiny little clit than men do in the entire head of their
If I had your mentality about the only way he could show me adoration would be through oral, then our relationship would have been doomed from the start.
*This is coming from a woman who can count on one hand the number of times her husband has ever gone down on her, however still offers him a blowjob (to completion) .
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Originally Posted by Darkhorse
Maybe if he talked less, he'd get more BJs. kidding.....or am i
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Originally Posted by Therealbrighteyes
Or if he didn't insist that women "worship" at it like it's the
Vatican or the Trevi fountain.
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Originally Posted by Darkhorse
Yea, I never understood that. Muscular men with childsized genitals. STUPID!
I hate having pubic hair. If I could afford to have it all removed permanently I would. I can't shave it though or I get MAJOR ingrowns, and waxing has never worked well for me, no matter who does it.
Sigh.
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Re: I don't understand women in this regard 
What a strange twist to this thread.
