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Old 12-07-2011, 12:41 PM   #61 (permalink)
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I bedazzle mine. It is that worthy of worship.
I don't want to completely destroy this thread, but it reminded me of something that caused me considerable concern a couple of years ago. I was taking my wife on a day trip, and we stopped at the site of a really bad wreck. She's a nurse practicioner, so I hung back and helped with traffic until the authorites arrived, but she called me over. Won't go into many details, but I'm a pretty strong guy, so they needed me to move a crashed motorcycle and to help get a woman get out of a car (the motorcycle had sprayed gas everywhere). She had fainted, but was not seriously injured, although others were. Apparently, she had no underwear on, or close to it, mini skirt and something glittered when my wife was positioning her safely. Man, I am so naive, 46, but I kept it to myself. Later, my wife 'educated' me on what it meant to be bedazzled. Seriously damaged my calm to think she might have some stray shrapnel up there.
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Old 12-07-2011, 12:44 PM   #62 (permalink)
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ALL I want to add to this thread is... when I didn't worship my husbands penis, poor man , he went 19 years with that gift lying dorment.... he was not as HAPPY deep within.... he even felt less loved...so I learned when I started asking questions.


What I see here with such threads is ...the same feelings as my quiet suffering husband had - but much more forthcoming, such words may even come off as demanding, expecting too much. Women will always have an appreciation for the sexually silent suffering man who puts himself down. But that is why he continues to suffer! that is no good either.

Now that I do "worship" my husband's penis, he is estatic and frankly, so am I.... He feels ovewhelmingly loved now. Love it, can't get enough , we joke about my worship. I wish I was this way my whole da** marraige.... and if I was a guy, I would likely feel the same & get my butt chewed for speaking about it, cause I am not the silent suffering type.

On the other end, I am thrilled my husband wants to be in between my legs and has enthusiam about it. --and I can't even orgasm that way but WANT it anyhow!!

There is just something overtakingy beautiful about our lovers wanting every part of our body, some of us feel strongly about this --I won't belittle that. It is all encompasing and we crave it...

For me, there is just no measure on what happiness this brings to a spouse, it satisfys the soul somehow.
I worship God, not body parts. I appreciate body parts but I am not building a shrine or singing hymns to them.
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I worship God, not body parts. I appreciate body parts but I am not building a shrine or singing hymns to them.
That's the visual I had.
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Old 12-07-2011, 12:45 PM   #64 (permalink)
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You're in a chipper mood today, JB What happened? You run over a small dog or something? KIDDING! Omg...kidding.
Haha. My cold, black heart has been warmed today. I need to take advantage of that since it probably won't last long.
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Old 12-07-2011, 12:46 PM   #65 (permalink)
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Yeah - major moolah.

I had to google codpiece. Am I the only one?
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Haha. My cold, black heart has been warmed today. I need to take advantage of that since it probably won't last long.
Well, then let me ask you this...IS EVERYBODY CHEATING NOW??!
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Yeah - major moolah.

I had to google codpiece. Am I the only one?
Must not be a Kiss fan, eh???
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Seriously damaged my calm to think she might have some stray shrapnel up there.
I just *facepalmed* and busted a gut laughing simultaneously. Thats some funny stuff right there.
(not the car accident, but the image of a man lifting a bike of an injured woman and then the look of horror on his face when he saw something glittery under her skirt....oh you poor fellow!)
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Must not be a Kiss fan, eh???
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Or she's never been around a man who had to "enhance" their package and thus doesn't know the methods used.
Didn't you mention something about being sent home last week for wearing one?
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Nope

I sometimes think I've been living in a vacuum. I'm often the only one who doesn't know what stuff is. I DO know what vajazzle is though TYVM.
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Bottom teeth too sharp. Husband afraid. Need mouthguard. Not ALL men are so obsessed on BJs the way not all women are obsessed with cunnilingus. In my house, it's give and take - once I get that mouthguard, that is...sigh.
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Bottom teeth too sharp. Husband afraid. Need mouthguard. Not ALL men are so obsessed on BJs the way not all women are obsessed with cunnilingus. In my house, it's give and take - once I get that mouthguard, that is...sigh.
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(the sound of women everywhere - filing their teeth...)

So then - are men more obsessed with BJs than women are with "cunnilingus"???
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(the sound of women everywhere - filing their teeth...)

So then - are men more obsessed with BJs than women are with "cunnilingus"???
Filing teeth? That's not proper worship. We need to have our bicuspids removed.

Yes men are more obsessed. Why does porn begin and end with it if they are not.
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Well, then let me ask you this...IS EVERYBODY CHEATING NOW??!
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LOL. Wrong thread, Dark


I'm so confused!!!
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