Ok here goes nothing.... I am new here but I have been looking for a place to help me. I don't really have anyone to talk to about things.
A little background... we have been together for 4+years. It been a struggle to say the least! We have broken up a few times because in the beginning he was extremely jealous, would get mad if we didn't have sex when he wanted to but had no idea how to initiate it, anger issues, passive aggressive, and mood swings.
Well, the last time we broke up which was 2 thanksgivings ago we got back together because I couldn't stand seeing him with another woman. I called him he left her and came back and been here ever since. We are best friends, when we are good we are amazing! But when we are bf we are awful! Our main issue ....COMMUNICATION! He will not talk about ANYTHING!
But to get to the point about a 2 years ago he went on Prozac for 9 months, he got off of them suddenly and ever since he has completely lost his sex drive but that's not all! He was only on these meds 9 months and currently been off of them for over a year and there is no romance, no gentle touch, no real feelings, no sex, no jealous (and a I mentioned he was insanely irrationally jealous), no more passion for anything.
We have had multiple arguments because we cant even talk about things cause like I said he won't! He admits and knows his is not giving me what I need sexually, mentally, physically which makes him with withdraw even more. But I can't deal much longer! I want to fix things but I can't and he just says he doesn't know how to fix it! When I ask him why? Or what should we do or what do u feel the answer is always the same... I Don't know!
We have been to dr., chevked blood work testosterone, and nothing!
Any input? I'm at a complete loss
And just want to add once a month or so he will give in but it's like he's doing my a favor! I don't want it like that! I want him to love me and crave me like he did before all of this happened!
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