Abstinence for bj's
You're a good wife. ;
I've run into the blowbang when it's inserted into compilations or pmv videos. Not my thing but you are latching onto something if that's his direction.
That's definitely a domination fantasy where the girl is insatiable.
Frankly, if you start to act like you can't take the volume in his normal activity, you might be able to eliminate the drama of the abstinence period. He seems to think he has to initiate the fantasy by building volume but it's the setting and response that's the turn on.
In my opinion, as Board Certified Doctor Of Porn (due solely to the passage of time), this is all about you bowing down to his awesomeness because you need it and want it. Frankly you can role play this anytime you want. And if you take charge of the role play unexpectedly it could be a huge turn on. Maybe script it out and watch a few of those videos to see what they're saying - the specific words used might be what is exciting. IDK
Just some random thoughts. Funny how graphic we can be with strangers, but I'm really glad you are reaching out and getting ideas to interject some freak into your marriage.
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