Join Date: Dec 2016
Location: Finger Lakes NY
Re: Problem with wanting sex to just be natural
Does she read spicy romance or erotic novels? Most women gravitate toward the books that have characters having sex the way they fantasize about it.
Have you tried the kitchen counter or up against the refrigerator yet? Or on the stairs on the way to the bedroom, with the scenario being you can't wait long enough to make it to the bed? (And yes, I would have loved any of those, tame as they may seem. My H never wanted ANYTHING other than vanilla doggy style or spooning. He didn't even like missionary. Although he did tell me once after we split that he did have fantasies just not involving me. I was his "good girl" and he couldn't treat me that way.
I read a romance novel once where they had sex on a moving treadmill...talk about fantasy ... as in, how is that even possible 😜
The road goes ever ever on, down from the door where it began... JRR Tolkien