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post #31 of 74 (permalink) Old 01-08-2017, 12:05 PM
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I read your original post last night and had a whole lot of questions to ask you lol.
Yeah, after I read what I had written in the context of the actual question posed, I couldn't delete it fast enough, LOL. This serves as a lesson to me to read, re-read, and re-re-read the OP before making a post.
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Ok considering the fairly young ages I am seeing here especially for boys - my son is 13 and his testicles haven't descended yet and his penis is still tiny despite the fact that he's already almost 6 feet tall. Should I be concerned?
I wouldn't worry. One of my brother's is 6' 2", I have no idea (or want to) about his plumbing, but he was outwardly a little boy until 10th or 11th grade. very short, voice hadn't deepened etc. I came home from college the next summer and he had shot up a foot and had a mustache. It just happens for some boys early, some late, some gradually and some all at once.

Sounds like he's just going in stages, height first, then the rest.
My mother had similar worries.

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Ok considering the fairly young ages I am seeing here especially for boys - my son is 13 and his testicles haven't descended yet and his penis is still tiny despite the fact that he's already almost 6 feet tall. Should I be concerned?
Ansolutely not! As long as he takes school or sports physicals each year, he'll be OK!

In which case if a problem is found, your doctor can discuss it at length with you!

But in all probability and by most standards, he is doing OK!

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A more interesting question to add is what happened when other people found out about it?

I remember being in high school, and you definitely did NOT want to be that one person that did not know what masturbation was or how to cary on a conversation about everything you had seen in porn among the guys.

I remember this one person that had extremely strict parents and he was always fascinated by these conversations. A groups of us found out that he was going to be home alone one day, so we got him some beer, chicken wings, and a porno. We dropped it off at his house and told him that we would all be super proud of him for becoming a man, and that we would all leave and just give him his needed privacy for the whole rest of the day. We then promptly called his parents and and told his mom that her son needed "urgent help at home, and to not ask him about it, to please just go right away check on him that we thought he was drinking alcohol and we were all very concerned for his behavior!"

OMG!!!!!!

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1. 8. I was asked if I ever had the FEELing and I had no idea what they were talking about and it was explained.

2. 9.

3. I was thinking about getting the FEELing and it finally came. I didn't learn about sex until I was a teenager and didn't think masturbation was sexual until I was 12. I went through puberty a year later and after that I always imagined a woman.

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I thought about making this a poll, but I'm looking for more in-depth responses than simply giving an age. I'm wondering...

1. How old were you when you first masturbated?

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating?
1. 9

2. 13

3. When first started, just that it felt good. Only did it once in a blue moon. When orgasm, thinking of pretty girls.
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I thought about making this a poll, but I'm looking for more in-depth responses than simply giving an age. I'm wondering...

1. How old were you when you first masturbated?

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating?
1. Too young to remember.

2. 13

3. Nothing. It just felt good.
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P.S. The answer to question 3 changed into adulthood.

I now let my mind go through all sorts of dirty fantasies involving fictional people.

It would be seriously disturbing, and to close to mental infidelity, to imagine real people.
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Ok considering the fairly young ages I am seeing here especially for boys - my son is 13 and his testicles haven't descended yet and his penis is still tiny despite the fact that he's already almost 6 feet tall. Should I be concerned?
I guess I don't know what every family is like but isn't 13 a little old for mom to still see him naked?

Or is it second hand information?
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1) 12
2) 12
3) Yay I found my Dad's playboys can't wait to do this again, which was like 15 minutes later
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1) 12
2) 12
3) Yay I found my Dad's playboys can't wait to do this again, which was like 15 minutes later
With my strict Methodist mom, I was scared sh!tless to bring any of those girly mags into the house!

But when we visited my uncle, he always seemed to have a rather sizable stash of them out in his travel trailer parked out back ~ and he was somewhat sympathetic toward the plights of adolescents as he later confessed to us as young men when we got into college ~ as long as we didn't bother telling our aunt! That man was an absolute saint!

Oh, how I dearly loved to visit their house!

Let's just say that on most visits, I disappeared for hours on end, alone out in that travel trailer of theirs!

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1. How old were you when you first masturbated? Thinking around 11...

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm? Can't say for sure, but likely the 1st few times of exploring...

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating? Boys boys and more Boys...whomever I had a crush on at the time, always some fantasy scenario leading up to the pleasure, his taking me...a country walk for instance.. we're all alone.....or something ripped out of a romance novel ...
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Oh and Barbarella was on late night when I was a teen. I couldn't look away! The Excessive Machine! Shortly after, I became intrigued with The Kama Sutra. I didn't have a boyfriend. It was just part of my own discovery.

Over the years with my husband, I realize how much I needed to learn and unlearn... with, and about, him and certain perceptions I've held. In our early times of dating, before we'd even had sex, we watched each other pleasure ourselves. Aside from being hot, it's both freeing and tantalizing.

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1. 12
2. 12
3. nothing. I'm not even sure what inspired me to do it. it just felt right.

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1. Very young. Not sure of exact age, but probably between 8-10. I had been sexually abused and as a result I was hyper-aware of parts.

2. 20. After finally getting therapy to deal with the past abuse, I also saw a sex therapist that helped me learn how to let myself O. Prior to that I wasn't able to as I associated some of the sensations with my abuse and would just shut down.

3. I remember exploring and trying to figure out what the big deal was with private parts. Why were men/boys so interested in them? I didn't O, but it did feel good.
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