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post #1 of 70 (permalink) Old 01-07-2017, 06:19 PM Thread Starter
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How old were you the first time you masturbated?

I thought about making this a poll, but I'm looking for more in-depth responses than simply giving an age. I'm wondering...

1. How old were you when you first masturbated?

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating?
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1. 16

2. 16

3. Can't remember.

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Lord almighty.. @Vega I read your question #1 all wrong. I thought it said 'when was the first time you saw porn', lol.

All these damn porn threads are started to affect my reading comprehension. Anyways, none of what I wrote answers your question #1, so I deleted it.

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I thought about making this a poll, but I'm looking for more in-depth responses than simply giving an age. I'm wondering...

1. How old were you when you first masturbated?

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating?


Let me think......hmmmm.....


1. early to mid teens

2. somewhere in my early mid teens. My first time was in my bed and from that point, I love sex.

3. Older women. When I was young, early to mid teens, I fantasized about older woman and to take me. Ladies in their 20's and 30's.

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1. Late 12ish

2. Early 13ish

3. At that age, I'd have to honestly say that it was nothing more other than just how damned good doing it felt!

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1. 4th grade so about 10 or 11. I know that's young for a girl. An older female cousin taught me and my sister. I don't know her motivation and maybe it was wrong of her but I enjoyed it so I continued doing it.

2. Don't know. Honestly think it was right from the beginning.

3. I usually did it while reading so mentally I was focused on whatever I was reading (usually Nancy Drew or Tricia Belden back then). When I was younger I didn't even realize it had anything to do with sex or men. It just felt good.

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An older female cousin taught me and my sister.
Hope you don't mind me saying this, but that is creepy weird.
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Hope you don't mind me saying this, but that is creepy weird.
yeah, not just creepy or weird but creepy weird.

I went through secondary school without doing it once. I used to rub my penis on girl's butts though - goosing if you will. Does that count as masturbation? All the other students kept talking about jocking (slang for masturbation). I used to think why touch yourself when there are so many girl's butts around. Just pretend to be playing tag with them. Then you will catch them from behind and rub away. That's what I used to do. When I left school i didn't find a job immediately. So idleness and a computer lead to masturbation. There were no readily available girl butts.

I wish I hadn't started, tbh. I don't care how much people say it's normal it really messed up the way I looked at women in general. I used to talk to girls effortlessly. Viewing them as just sexual objects all of a sudden made them intimidating. Dunno if that makes sense.

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yeah, not just creepy or weird but creepy weird.

I went through secondary school without doing it once. I used to rub my penis on girl's butts though - goosing if you will. Does that count as masturbation? All the other students kept talking about jocking (slang for masturbation). I used to think why touch yourself when there are so many girl's butts around. Just pretend to be playing tag with them. Then you will catch them from behind and rub away. That's what I used to do. When I left school i didn't find a job immediately. So idleness and a computer lead to masturbation. There were no readily available girl butts.

I wish I hadn't started, tbh. I don't care how much people say it's normal it really messed up the way I looked at women in general. I used to talk to girls effortlessly. Viewing them as just sexual objects all of a sudden made them intimidating. Dunno if that makes sense.
When you would "rub yourself" on girl's butts, did you know ANYTHING about sex then?

What do you think may have "inspired" you to do this, as opposed to rubbing yourself on guys* butts?

(Not suggesting anything to do with homosexuality; but the notion that you're rubbing yourself on GIRLS was inspired from SOMETHING...)
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When you would "rub yourself" on girl's butts, did you know ANYTHING about sex then?

What do you think may have "inspired" you to do this, as opposed to rubbing yourself on guys* butts?

(Not suggesting anything to do with homosexuality; but the notion that you're rubbing yourself on GIRLS was inspired from SOMETHING...)
Yeah, I knew about sex already. TV, friends, you know. I was already thinking girls were attractive by 9 or so. I was playing hide-and-go-seek with a neighbour girl and i caught her trying to run and held her tight form behind. It felt good. So I kept on doing this for years afterwards. I would always bring up a game like tag when I was with girls just as an excuse to goose girls.

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Yeah, I knew about sex already. TV, friends, you know. I was already thinking girls were attractive by 9 or so. I was playing hide-and-go-seek with a neighbour girl and i caught her trying to run and held her tight form behind. It felt good. So I kept on doing this for years afterwards. I would always bring up a game like tag when I was with girls just as an excuse to goose girls.
How did you find out about sex?

What did you learn about it?

What did you think about it when you first saw anything about it?

I hope you don't think that I'm "picking on you", but I'm comparing experiences to see how and why they got from not being sexual to sexual and at what age.
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I found out about sex through porn (older boys had magazines - and sometimes videos when their parents were away - and me and my friends would look at these videos with them. they were "cool". even though they were older they let us watch with them), through television (love scenes), and from overhearing the conversations of some adults and repeating them to friends. It was as if me and my friends were comparing what we knew and bouncing ideas off each other.

Since I was so young, obviously I was no expert but I did know that the penis went into the vagina. That's all the technical know how I needed at the time. When I first saw some video porn I was shocked and intrigued. THE MAN IS PUTTING HIS PEEPEE IN HER TEETEE!!! It was doggystyle so maybe that's where the goosing I liked came form. Get 'em form behind. I wanted to try it right away.

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I thought about making this a poll, but I'm looking for more in-depth responses than simply giving an age. I'm wondering...

1. How old were you when you first masturbated?

2. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?

3. What were you thinking about while masturbating?
1) 24

Yes, I'm serious. As a teen and into my 20's, I always had partners to see to my physical needs and never had to worry about taking care of it myself. I didn't masturbate until the last year of my first marriage when it was either that or have sex with the man I was married to.

2) 24

3) Nothing. I turn off my mind and just feel the sensations.

Follow the evidence where it leads and question everything.
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1) 14

2) 14

3) Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue

Then I cut the pictures out and taped them to my bedroom wall!
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Then I cut the pictures out and taped them to my bedroom wall!
I tried that by my mom said it was weird and made take them down!
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