Re: Men and sex
The question isn't whether this guy's 'need' is justified or not.
The issue is that he's like a damned randy dog in heat, constantly humping the OP's leg from the minute he gets up until the minute he falls asleep. I wouldn't give a sh*t WHAT his lame "love language" is ... no one wants to be MAULED every waking moment of their lives no matter who they are.
And these ridiculous lectures about giving this miscreant what he wants or he'll go elsewhere is another bunch of manure. He's obviously over-sexed because he's a serial cheater on TOP of his constant mauling. It's like he has to continually be having sex or he's unhappy. Who the HELL needs that?
This goes WAY beyond some 'love language' - unless there's a 6th love language known as "constantly needs to get laid 24/7."
OP, in one of your past posts you mention you don't want your kids to come from a divorced/broken home so you've stayed with this serial cheating horn-dog. Stop being a martyr already and boot this mouth-breather to the curb where he belongs..