Especially if the LD continues to masterbate. I think masterbating is healthy, but is it still if the LD persons choses that over sex knowing full well that they're neglecting their parter?
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Perhaps they're neglecting their partner because they're partner(s) were/are neglecting them[/I]?
As someone else brought up, one reason why the LD can be LD is because they're not having orgasms
I'll tell you a little secret....when it comes to MOST orgasmic women having an orgasm, thrusting
, for MOST women doesn't cut it! Most orgasmic women need constant
stimulation to their clitoris. That is, they need the 'right' amount of pressure, with the 'right' amount of moisture, for the 'right' amount of time. When a man thrusts, he most often misses the 'mark'. Thrusting is like applying stimulation and taking it away. The movement isn't constant enough for long enough for her to achieve an orgasm.
There was only one partner I had who did NOT thrust. Every time we had intercourse, I achieved an orgasm. Every. Single. Time.
I tried to explain this to my late husband. He was too egotistical to want to try it by claiming that how I explained it would be "boring". Sweetie, if I'm having orgasm, I'm DEFINITELY NOT going to be "bored"!
What he meant was that HE would be 'bored'. Of course, thrusting provided HIM with the 'right' kind of stimulation that HE needed. He definitely wasn't 'bored'.
It got to the point where I relied on masturbation (that I did NOT share with him) because I knew that I wouldn't be having an orgasm any time soon with him. I had an orgasm with him through intercourse TWICE in 9years.
No wonder I became LD...