C: Trying to explain what sex for a HD is like to a LD is difficult. Nothing is quite the same. One more try: imagine that social norms required you to eat the same foods as your partner. Now imagine that your partner is only willing to eat McDonalds hamburgers and salads, no sauce, dressing etc, and vitamins as needed. Nothing else ever. You can live on that (baring some very long term health effects). Your are wealthy enough to eat whatever you want, around you people are eating apples, drinking fresh orange juice, chocolate, steaks etc. All you get year after year is McDonalds. They don't understand why anyone would eat anything else.
Coming from an LD point of view, *I* can use the same analogy.
The LD sees the HD as wanting steak. Doesn't matter if it's filet mignon, chateaubriand or London broil, it's still steak. Doesn't matter if you broil it, sautee it, or even fry it, it's still steak! Doesn't matter if you smother it in mushrooms, or add a nice creamy garlic-butter sauce, it's still
steak! And it's steak megatimes a week.
Couldn't you eat something that's NOT steak for a change? There's chicken, fish, pasta, pork, organ meats, salads, etc. But the HD ONLY wants steak.
How about one more analogy...
The HD goes to an amusement park with the LD. The HD ONLY wants to ride on the biggest, fastest, highest roller coaster; the one that twists and turns and flips upside down in 5 places. No other ride will do. And the HD wants to ride it over and over and over and over...you get the message.
There are numerous other rides and things to do/see in the park. If you manage to get the HD away from the roller coaster, it's like the HD becomes anxious. The HD wants to know WHEN (s)he can go back to the roller coaster.
Doing anything over and over again can get boring after a while.
Maybe the LD is just plain bored.