Originally Posted by She'sStillGotIt View Post
I just can't identify with what it must be like to live for your genitals and be on the hunt auditioning guys in bed to see if they're 'sex worthy' before you even know if you like them or what their last name is. What the hell kind of relationship will that turn out to be, or are you just looking for a highly trained f*ck buddy who isn't emotionally and socially stunted?
Since your first priority is sex, why don't you just start looking on Adult Friend Finder or some other hookup site?
Who said my first priority is sex? I am saying finding someone sexually compatible is important to me.
You may think of it as "living by my genitals", I find it finding someone I am sexually compatible with so that I do not have to lay there at night unsatisfied and disconnected.
Intimacy is a MASSIVE part of any relationship, and being criticized because I hold it as one of my priorities is ignorant.
You will also note that my other requirements were communication and not being jealous.
Communication is MASSIVE part of any relationship. If I am not able to talk to a partner about things....what is the point in being in a relationship with them?
Not being with someone jealous either. Rather be able to trust someone and have them trust me and not live in a state of having to defend myself because some guy checks me out at the grocery store and my man notices it.
If you do not hold these three parts of a Relationship as important, then please do not provide insulting and attacking input that is not productive.
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