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Nobody admits to liking it, but the lady got filthy rich somehow...

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Nobody admits to liking it, but the lady got filthy rich somehow...
My wife read all three. I think she liked them enough. Not like omg these are great books, but teehee these are naughty. Also never hurts that its ultimately a sappy love story with a 27 year old adonis billionaire.

Couple times my wife said I benefited from her reading the books in the bedroom around her Aunt I believe. Stupidly i was like WTF? I did? Now when she says that I just go along with it.

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Ever since the books soared in popularity the lifestyle has attracted crowds of young so called "doms" that prey on the community. These guys are clueless and have wrecked havoc on the BDSM community.
I agree. These "Dom's" are a joke and they are making the whole BDSM community look bad. But what can you do? Yah know? I just try and shed light on the real lifestyle that many of us share when someone asks a question about it. Honestly, all of these inexperienced "Dom's" ( and I use that word lightly) have the potential to seriously hurt someone.
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Well, I REALLY didnt read them, sex is more important to me than that rubbish.
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The movie was basically porn which doesn't interest me in the least. Maybe the new movie actually has a plot...but it's probably going to horrible anyway.
Yes is IS porn, we dont watch porn either. I think of sex as important and special, these things just make it sordid and seedy.
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If the ideas of the book piqued your or your spouse's interest, I suggest reading up on real Dom/Sub relationships and the BDSM culture. The story of 50 shades is ok, at least it opened the eyes of many individuals who may be interested in such a sexual manner, but it is far from accurate. Though if both you and your partner like the books/first movies then you should definitely go see it together especially if it will lead to more adventurous love-making. The books are crap in reality - it's the kinky content that gets most people interested. I suggest having a real go at it sometime... It's quite fun.
I guess it depends on what you call fun.
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I guess it depends on what you call fun.
Well it actually varies quite a bit I've heard.

I myself am willing to at least TRY most things with my WIFE as long as they dont involve peeing, pooping or other people.

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Brand licensing? The Romantic Depot has HUGE flag/banner for officially licensed 50 shades "gear", I hope it's true and she gets a cut.



Sigh, my wife gives me the speaking treatment.
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Brand licensing? The Romantic Depot has HUGE flag/banner for officially licensed 50 shades "gear", I hope it's true and she gets a cut.
Or a spanking, amirite?

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Well it actually varies quite a bit I've heard.

I myself am willing to at least TRY most things with my WIFE as long as they dont involve peeing, pooping or other people.
As I see it, the need to hurt or be hurt to get aroused often shows that the person is sexually scarred and damaged.
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I guess it depends on what you call fun.
People who partake in the BDSM culture all do so willingly and there are many who only partake in say just the B &D or just the B stuff. Not everyone in the life takes part in all facets of the culture. And most have no underlying abuse/neglect at its root like in the books I'm sure some do because there are many people who do it. Different strokes for different folks you know?

As well any sexual encounter, be it BDSM themed or vanilla, has the potential to be quite scary if you are with the wrong person. It's the trust shared between the two partners that make it as amazing as it is. It allows a couple to explore the depth of their unique connection. Make sense? I'm probably rambling, it's hard to put into the right words.
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Well it actually varies quite a bit I've heard.

I myself am willing to at least TRY most things with my WIFE as long as they dont involve peeing, pooping or other people.
You are absolutely right. The variations are endless. You won't like some and others you will probably love! I suggest asking your wife about it and do some real RESEARCH, that book isn't a how to Manuel. When done the right ways it can be amazing, when done the wrong ways it can be dangerous. So make sure you read up before just heading to your local sex store and buying a flogger
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The movie was basically porn which doesn't interest me in the least. Maybe the new movie actually has a plot...but it's probably going to horrible anyway.

THAT is the whole point. It is Porn that is socially acceptable to be seen going to watch. You can spice up your marriage sex, or if you are whining about a sexless marriage, try to jump start it, by just buying two tickets and a box of popcorn! Time to get off your azz and do something about that HD/LD relationship
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THAT is the whole point. It is Porn that is socially acceptable to be seen going to watch. You can spice up your marriage sex, or if you are whining about a sexless marriage, try to jump start it, by just buying two tickets and a box of popcorn! Time to get off your azz and do something about that HD/LD relationship
You dont need porn to have a good sex life, unless you have no imagination.
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You dont need porn to have a good sex life, unless you have no imagination.
I agree. Tapping into ouur imagination can take your sex life to a whole new stratosphere.
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