I have been with my partner for 16 years and, for the last 7 we have not had any type of intimacy or physical contact. Recently she has been a little to close to one of her coworkers. I looked at her phone and it showed that he is the most frequent called number. He has a girlfriend, but she lives 3 hours from him. On New Years Eve he called her phone at 12:14am. I saw it in her history and when I asked her about it she said she didn't see a missed call from him. It has taken me all of 3 weeks to finally get her to admit that she saw the missed call. Now I am having some serious trust issues knowing that she not only lied to me, but tried to make it look like I was crazy. Any advise? Right now I just feel broken!
1) GET A COPY OF MW DAVIS BOOK THE SEX STARVED MARRIAGE AND A COPY OF HER BOOK THE SEX STARVED WIFE. Both of you need to read the one aimed at you and reread it, and study it.
2) Make an appointment for you and your wife with a sex therapist.
You could research two really good divorce attorneys and wait for the inevitable.