Please be reassured that a lousy sex life is, by itself, more than sufficient reason to divorce even if every other aspect of the marriage is excellent. Which is rarely the case.
do not feel guilty. Do not feel that you are forsaking your vows. Your spouse is forsaking HER vows by not having sex with you regularly and ensuring you are satisfied. What do you think "to have and to hold" means? You agree to forsake all others precisely because each of you agrees to have and hold the other. She has failed and refused to do so. You are absolved of your vows.
Go forth and seek a partner who is willing to live up to her vows. If your wife tries to guilt you into staying with her, tell her that she needed to maintain her vows to you years ago if she hoped to hold you to yours.
When you can see it coming, duck!
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