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post #16 of 19 (permalink) Old 01-30-2017, 01:49 PM
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Re: Sexless honeymoon

Emma, where do you girls find these guys that don't like sex? My wife and I have been banging each others brains out for 25+ years, I'm 9 years older and was 40 a quarter of a century ago. Heck my girl, guys my age like it so much they spend thousands of dollars on the blue pill when age starts telling on them. I'm beginning to believe the millennials and gen-x'ers don't have in them to care whether their wives are happy. I think the commitment of marriage just scares the shyt of of them. Maybe you were born too late.

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Vlad, I have 20 years more than you banging my wife's brains out. I can't think of a time when we weren't sexual, and all I could come up with was after our kids were born. ANNNNND since the second was by caesarian, I was going down on her within a week of her release from hospital.
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Re: Sexless honeymoon

This is a big problem. My XH and I didn't have sex on our honeymoon... he had all the excuses in the world, and it was SO disappointing. I know where you're coming from, OP, and it really, really sucks.

Honestly, I don't have any good advice on how to FIX this problem... I tried everything I could think of, and we still got divorced several years later. If it weren't for the kid, I would advise you to get the marriage annulled as soon as you get back from the honeymoon (it's what I would have done). But life is too short to be stuck in a sexless marriage, and that's the direction you're headed. You've got to talk to him about this. Maybe a sex-positive MC is in order.

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post #19 of 19 (permalink) Old 02-01-2017, 11:48 PM
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Re: Sexless honeymoon

Don't make this a huge deal. He is your husband, open communication is a must guys and honestly if he loves you the way he should, you should feel safe to talk to him about your feelings.
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