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post #46 of 111 (permalink) Old 01-31-2017, 01:39 PM
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Sorry if you already mentioned it, I haven't been following these threads closely, but did you ever not see some again because of it? My wife, who was rather experienced, says she only broke up with one guy because his penis was too "small" (no definition given, but she is a girth matters, more than length girl).
No, not technically. One guy and I broke up for other reasons (amicable) but I was secretly happy because he was small. We were not dating with the idea of an LTR but if we had been, I probably would not have continued dating him at all. Since it was just casual dating (we didn't actually have intercourse but played around other ways) I was ok with it, he was really fun and imaginative. I was relieved we broke up without having sex because I knew it wasn't going to do anything for me.

Remember the goal of feminism: Making sure only alphas get laid!
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I definitely have observed aforementioned double standard.

Never understood it myself. LOL!
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Men: We are visual creatures! Therefore you must be hot, thin, young, and horny in a way we can see it with our eyes!

Women: We are visual too and it matters to us what you look like.

Men: No you aren't! Only men are visual! Women care about money and personality and other things far more than how a man looks!

Women: Well no, that isn't true...we do care about the physical.

Men: NO YOU DON'T!!! ONLY WE DO!!! Therefore we can look like anything as long as we have enough money, we are still owed a hot woman! BECAUSE MEN ARE VISUAL!!!!!!!!!!

Women: Um, well I don't know what to tell you, it matters to me.

Men: You are an anomaly then and your opinion doesn't count.

Women: But there are 50 other women on this thread saying the same thing.

Men: ONLY MEN ARE VISUAL!!!!!! WOMEN ONLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN SECURITY!!!!!

Women: Sigh....whatever dude, have fun with your delusion...........oh hey, check out Mr. Hottie with the night stick in his pants....where you goin' honey?

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Sorry if you already mentioned it, I haven't been following these threads closely, but did you ever not see some again because of it? My wife, who was rather experienced, says she only broke up with one guy because his penis was too "small" (no definition given, but she is a girth matters, more than length girl).
I have a young female friend who decided to take a guy home and when she saw what he had, flat out told him he was too small.

He apparently wasn't put off so she had sex with him anyway.

It was a one off but thought it a funny story.

His confidence allowed him to still seal the deal and her brutal honesty made me laugh!
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It's really not harsh treatment I've received, it is about the bulls*t double standards that some men have (many who don't even realize it). Most women have been groomed to never ever step on a man's fragile sexual ego. Which is a double standard too because men typically don't bother to try to tip toe around our egos (when speaking generally). Most men will explain loud and clear to anyone who will listen that they have this or that (female body part or type) preference and how good it is, but that this or that (too fat, too skinny, no ass, too much ass, no boobs, waist too big, fat legs, skinny legs, ugly face, etc on and on) is horrible, hideous, unf*ckable, etc.

I've just never adopted the attitude that I should protect men's egos since I don't see men going out of their way to protect mine. I don't mean in a romantic relationship, I mean just bantering with who ever. Men just can't wait to tell you how much SIZE MATTERS in every part of a woman's body.

But some of the same men crumble to the ground when we say penis size matters....and height matters....and biceps size matters....and tight asses matter....on and on. Whatever we say matters, some man somewhere freaks the f*ck out about how they don't have whatever we said matters.

Get over it. It all matters.

(not you, Conan)
Men are not as skilled in the art of bull****, that's why. We are upfront. So having grown up with the Virgin-Mary persona that most women go out of their way to portray the "other side" is surprising. Not bad, just surprising.

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But then again maybe a beta like myself need to get over it, right? Wish I could measure up to your awesome lovers.


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Looks like my goal to secretly create a "Penis Size" thread has been successful
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But then again maybe a beta like myself need to get over it, right? Wish I could measure up to your awesome lovers.
The signature line in my posts is a joke that came about from a banter @tech-novelist and I had.

I'm not the one who follows the alpha/beta red pill cult. I was making fun of it.

But think whatever you want to about me! Peace.

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Looks like my goal to secretly create a "Penis Size" thread has been successful
Every thread is a penis size thread just waiting to happen.

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Sorry if you already mentioned it, I haven't been following these threads closely, but did you ever not see some again because of it? My wife, who was rather experienced, says she only broke up with one guy because his penis was too "small" (no definition given, but she is a girth matters, more than length girl).
There is "small" and then there is SMALL <g>.

I am told my wife came across one that was pinky size which is what, 2.5" or so? She only saw that one once. I can't imagine that is exactly common, most women will not come across that extreme end of the size spectrum in a lifetime.
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Every thread is a penis size thread just waiting to happen.
I've never turned anyone away because their boobs were too big, or small
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I agree women often say size doesn't matter and I'm not certain but I may have said it myself at some point. In my mind, the majority of men seem to be average size and should not be concerned about their size.

I have refused to go back to a guy I was seeing who had a very small penis but the thing was outrageously small. I'm not exaggerating that it was not much longer than my little finger, he couldn't use his hand to handle it, only his fingertips! Perhaps the worst part about it and what convinced me not to go back was the initial boasting on his part, about how much he would make me cum and what he was going to do to me. Ugh, why set yourself up for failure? This guy did have children from a previous marriage though so perhaps size didnt matter to his ex-wife?...

However, I did have an amazing experience with a guy I was seeing who was definitely below average, maybe 1-2 inches longer than mr. man up top. There was no boasting, I'd say he was the very definition of a good lover. No complaints about size there at all.

So it is true that size does matter but I think when most women say that it really doesn't, they're not taking into account that some men really do have tiny penises.
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I know women appreciate confidence with honesty.

There was a friend I had that was flirting with me a little and we were talking about everything because I talk about everything when she pulls out her phone and shows me a couple pictures of two of her FWB's.

Couldn't tell with one but the other either had a large summer sausage in his shorts or was packing a monster!

I laughed and told her he is part horse and I didn't have near that much.

She looked at me with heat and said I had enough.

She could have been in my arms quite rapidly.

I have told other women that were hitting on me that I was really small and they didn't care and wanted find out for themselves.

They either didn't believe me or truly didn't care just for a night of fun.

They never did find out.��

Sex is fun and funny! I wonder if people didn't get so bent out of shape that life would be more enjoyable!
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The signature line in my posts is a joke that came about from a banter @tech-novelist and I had.

I'm not the one who follows the alpha/beta red pill cult. I was making fun of it.

But think whatever you want to about me! Peace.


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Maybe women will still say size doesn't matter when you are around so as not to hurt your ego.


Indeed. Piece.

Even if I don't get likes for it, I'm still going to say it.
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Men are not as skilled in the art of bull****, that's why. We are upfront. So having grown up with the Virgin-Mary persona that most women go out of their way to portray the "other side" is surprising. Not bad, just surprising.



But then again maybe a beta like myself need to get over it, right? Wish I could measure up to your awesome lovers.

Do you view yourself as beta or being tongue in cheek here?

Made me laugh hard BTW!
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Do you view yourself as beta or being tongue in cheek here?

Made me laugh hard BTW!

Like all men, I'm a little bit of both. Alpha at times, and beta as hell at other times.

Even if I don't get likes for it, I'm still going to say it.
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