Re: After children...
I can totally understand wanting a sex life back, but the way he has tried to get it has ultimately caused more damage than the birth ever could. I think I know that now.
But how do I get over it? Past the resentment it's duly caused. I want to keep our relationship, I want him to feel loved and valued, but I don't trust he, in the difficult times, will afford me the respect or value in return. The sexual desire has been twisted to suit him and I want that to change.
In general, Why is a short term sex refusal a no go, mistreatment even to the rejected, but ongoing sexual demand is OK and normal? That's not considered mistreatment, or unfair. It seems like a complete double standard to me.
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