Re: HD vs. LD - Perception vs. Reality
There is a lot of range. Some HD people might better be described as sex addicts - wanting sex >1/day as a purely physical thing, not caring about their partners. Some LDs want sex less than once a month, no matter what the circumstances are, even if their partners are the most wonderful people in the world.
Then there are relatively LD and HD people where the HD may prefer sex daily, and the LD weekly.
In these discussions, the LDs who are posting are typically of the second sort, wanting sex maybe a bit more often than weekly, but paired with a HD of the first sort who insists on sex all the time.
The HDs posting typically are the second sort, wanting sex a few times a week, but paired with LDs of the first sort who essentially never want sex.
This makes the discussion difficult.
One thing that applies to me, and I think other (moderatly) HD people is that I do not separate sex from other forms of intimacy. I view it as a natural part of everyday intimacy, hugs, kisses, touches - not as a separate activity. Its clear on the other hand that my LD wife views it as an entirely separate activity.