Because HD love sex. It feels good. I don't want to offend anyone, but I feel like maybe some LD haven't had great experiences with sex or that maybe they don't orgasm as much\easily? Or maybe that they aren't sexually liberated as some HD people. Perhaps some LD people rewire their brains because they begin to explore more and create positive associations with sex.
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While all of what you write it's true, sometimes it's none of the above.
An LD can enjoy sex and think it's wonderful if it's in moderation
. It's just not something they want to do often because there are other things to do/experience. And some things they like doing even MORE than sex.
They don't want it to be a 'routine', either. Must-have-sex-X-amount-of-times-per-week is too predictable, even if it's done on different days of the week. And if it's done every day, it's no different than brushing your teeth. Doing it too often kind of takes the 'specialness' away from it. It would be like celebrating Christmas every day. Or eating chicken every day. No matter how much you dress it up, in the end, it's still chicken
For the HD, there seems to be a goal: Orgasm. Sex isn't sex without it. The orgasm is part of that routine. It's like reading the same story over and over again, knowing how it's going to end. Boring.
Some LD's see sex as more of a journey WITHOUT always having to have a destination. Did you ever get into a car just to go for a drive? You don't have a destination in mind. You just drive and enjoy the scenery. The music. The conversation. The laughter. The touching for the sake of touching without it having to lead anywhere. (One of the biggest complaints that the LD has is that they can't show their partner non-sexual affection without the HD wanting to have sex!) One of the perceptions of the HD is that the HD wants sex and orgasms (the destination) while the LD wants intimacy
Also, many LD's are looking for quality
, whereas the HD seems to seek quantity over quality.
This thread is about perceptions, so I'm throwing these out to show the perceptions the LD may have of the HD, and of sex period