Originally Posted by lifeistooshort View Post
I suppose I'd be considered LD by many here.....I'm usually good for 2-3X per week. Fortunately that seems to be good for my husband too as he's a little older now.
I could probably manage a little more if it was important to him as I really enjoy it, but too much would limit my enjoyment for any of it since I'd never get to recover and would never have time to think about it and miss it.
Then I would become resentful because I would have less enjoyment so he could get more sex; I think a balance needs to be found there.
Does your wife genuinely enjoy daily sex or does she initiate so you don't get cranky? Hopefully it's the former and that's great for both of you.
She literally upped her.libido, sexuality and confidence.
She developed a hunger for sex and turned the table on me.
She basically hunts me sexually and her aggression and skill in the bedroom is borderline frightening compared to how she use to be.
She is undergoing transformations in other areas as well.
I took her dancing before Christmas. We have literally only danced a handful of times in 25 years and it wasn't very good. I loved to dance when I was single BTW.
So anyway, we go to a casino with my coworkers and she looks like dynamite. I get her on the floor and an amazingly sexy, confident woman stepped out of her and started dancing, WELL!
It was soon evident that I was the weaker partner and barely keeping up! We looked fantastic, mostly her and absolutely owned the floor.
I got tired after 4 dances but she was still ready to rock.
I finally led her off the floor while she was still going.
A younger woman in our group leaned over and told us "You guys really broke it down out there!" she had a huge smile and wide eyes. I don't think they were expecting the show us middle aged folks put on.
I believe that Mrs. Conan, and probably many people, had untapped potential that she didn't trust to let out.
The things she does to me in and out of the bedroom are changing our dynamic.
I've always felt loved by her but now I feel consumed.