Join Date: Apr 2016
Location: new england usa
Re: Husband always wants me to dress up for him to have sex.
asking you to dress up sexy is really not all that big of a deal. Unless he is implying that you are ugly and need to hide it with lingerie, why not go along for the ride.
But how about trying other things. Obviously he needs MORE than just standard PIV sex to get turned on. That has NOTHING to do with how sexy your body is, it is just a medical form of ED he has. In no particular order, have you tried:
1) tying him to a chair naked, then playing with various parts of his body teasing him, and finally sliding onto his lap to finish with PIV sex
2) various types of nipple stimulation, such as nipple clamps, leather crops, etc
3) Pegging him first before he can give you PIV sex
4) Put his penis in a chastity cage, and only unlocking it when YOU are ready for PIV sex
and so on. In other words, OVERLOAD his kinky mind with new types of kink, and see if you find something where YOU are in control that turns him on enough to be able to have PIV sex.