Re: So this is the SITUATION
Originally Posted by Plan 9 from OS View Post
I learned that too. A couple of years ago, I was on SIM trying to get advice to improve frequency (and quality) of the sex life. After i gave my numbers, I was told - politely for the most part - to STFU and enjoy what I had. Not bad for 80 years old right? (j/k). We have sex every other day except when she's on her period and then it's normally off limits for the first 5-6 days.
Yeah, that's pretty good!
Something like 20% of marriages are sexless, which is defined at 10 times or fewer per year. My former marriage was sexless, and it was horrible. I would have been stoked to get it even once a week! (Except, by the time things got really
bad, I couldn't stand him anymore and wanted him nowhere near me...)
Given my druthers, I'd prefer sex every day (extenuating circumstances aside), but my partner and I don't live together, so that's not happening. And he won't during my period, which makes me a little sad and angsty because I get even hornier during my period.
~Happily un-married since December 9, 2013~