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post #16 of 23 (permalink) Old 02-10-2017, 10:24 PM
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If he's pulling that crap, why bother waiting until he's asleep? Do it right in front of him, and if he protests, say, "Well, I don't see you doing anything about the horny woman in your bed."
Lol I took that plan of attack the othet day and it worked. Honesty, he might actually be sick since we spend the night cleaning up our three year olds vomit. That being said 'the man cold' persona really doesn't do it for me. Flying solo while he's grumbling about gravol suits me just fine I think maybe I fail at being the nurturing type

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Lol I took that plan of attack the othet day and it worked. Honesty, he might actually be sick since we spend the night cleaning up our three year olds vomit. That being said 'the man cold' persona really doesn't do it for me. Flying solo while he's grumbling about gravol suits me just fine I think maybe I fail at being the nurturing type
So, it's just dead tonight, and not all the time?

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Mine's dead tonight, since I am home alone, instead of at my guy's place. His dog is sick, he's very stressed, and he's not up for company.

But normally, we have a pretty healthy sex life, as much as we can living apart and not seeing each other as frequently as I might like.

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So, it's just dead tonight, and not all the time?
It got bad for a while during my third pregnancy and then continued for about 6 months after baby came. In the last few months it's been getting better. My concern now is that it won't last.

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It got bad for a while during my third pregnancy and then continued for about 6 months after baby came. In the last few months it's been getting better. My concern now is that it won't last.
Having sex begets more sex. Good luck!!!

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Lack of sex often points to other issues in the marriage. Working on this issues may well help bring the sex back.
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Anyhoo, if anyone feels like replying, are there any dead bedrooms here?
Yup, mine was technically dead for 25 of the 28 years I was married. Notice I said "was". There are several other women on TAM with dead bedrooms.
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Having sex begets more sex. Good luck!!!
That's what I'm finding. A pattern is slowly being established.

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