Re: Dying for a good sex life
Start taking control of your own body. You should always be the one who knows best exactly how ready you are. If you don't, then you need to get in better touch with your own body. Start playing with yourself and paying attention to what your lady parts feel like and use your finger to test how wet you are at each stage of the proceedings. Then you will know what it feels like at each stage of wetness.
Do not be limited by the thought that you "shouldn't" need lube. Nothing wrong with lube. What is wrong is trying to have PIV without sufficient lubrication. No shame in saying "honey, not ready yet, grab the lube". Frankly, I never try to enter my wife without lubing first. Even if I have been giving her oral and there is plenty of saliva and her secretions in the area. I never try to insert a dry penis anywhere. Neither should your husband. Why risk having a problem when you can eliminate the risk and have an easy smooth insertion every time? If you always lube first, it isn't a statement about anything relating to that session ans it is just part of sex. Every time all the time.
When you can see it coming, duck!