Re: Dying for a good sex life
I would be dying, too. I'm sorry you are in this spot. I only know bits of your story, but it does sound like what you are seeking isn't quite something your H can pull off. Though maybe it was great in the beginning, I can't remember.
I just know that there is a certain level of how sexual a person needs to be in order for me to have a great sex life with them. That includes them pursuing me, pursuing sex, adoring me, being adventurous and open minded, and being able to openly show their lust and desire for me on a regular basis. I also do all of those things, and I need a partner who reciprocates it in equal measure (or even more, I actually feel the man in the relationship needs to provide more of those things than the woman or else the balance gets off somehow...which doesn't mean I don't do "the work", it just means he does the part of "the work" that provides the spark to my flame.)
There haven't been very many stories around here of a spouse changing their core sexual level, desires, and libido in order for their partner to be more satisfied. I don't know how you would go about changing someone like that.
But if he was like that before (however it is that you are wanting) then there is hope.
Remember the goal of feminism: Making sure only alphas get laid!
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