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Old 12-20-2011, 11:19 PM   #16 (permalink)
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^ So you will let a "him" get you to your happy ending? :O

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Old 12-20-2011, 11:25 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Guess I need to find a new Chiropractor!
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Old 12-20-2011, 11:28 PM   #18 (permalink)
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The first day I was selling advertising a oriental female and some dirty old man came in a placed an ad in the sports section psyig in cash.

Since it was my first sale I had boss man there. They paid in cash. after they left he told me to turn in the cash to the cashier and then go wash my hands.

hahaha

When I was setting up the account, I askeds them who the owner was and neither would fess up to it

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Old 12-21-2011, 06:55 AM   #19 (permalink)
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I get massages all the time. But there is a HUGE difference between getting an Asian massage and massage therapy at a spa or at a licensed massage therapist's office. Nothing untoward ever happened to me except in Vegas at the MGM Grand spa, where I'm pretty sure the guy would have fingered me if I had given him the sign. He's the only masseuse to ever massage my ass and his fingers kept brushing VERY close to my pu$$y. I was single at the time and was very turned on by what was happening, but would never have done anything about it.

I have a girlfriend who went to Spa Miraval and I found out that she had sex with the male masseuse the entire time she was there. She went back two months later for another 4 days (she has a lot of money) and boinked him again. Apparently while he was massaging her she grabbed his hand and it was "go time" after that. That place is NOT cheap, so she spent a lot to get laid! If he was doing that with her, I'm sure he was doing that with other women. He also had a girlfriend who was also a massage therapist, so he was a creep.

Kinda feel like a massage right now! Whew!
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Old 12-21-2011, 07:56 AM   #20 (permalink)
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even if you go to an asian massage parlor without the intention of getting "extras" you are still supporting sex slavery

the majority of these places get young women/girls to come to the US and then indenture them to sex slavery to "pay off" the debt of bringing them over. They also charge them for room and board and they are required to buy their own massage supplies (and condoms) so it becomes almost impossible for them to get out of that life for many many years if they are lucky. Their passports are taken if they have them so they feel they can't escape.

truly sad- stay the F away from these places.
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Old 12-21-2011, 08:38 AM   #21 (permalink)
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even if you go to an asian massage parlor without the intention of getting "extras" you are still supporting sex slavery

the majority of these places get young women/girls to come to the US and then indenture them to sex slavery to "pay off" the debt of bringing them over. They also charge them for room and board and they are required to buy their own massage supplies (and condoms) so it becomes almost impossible for them to get out of that life for many many years if they are lucky. Their passports are taken if they have them so they feel they can't escape.

truly sad- stay the F away from these places.
Just wondering (not doubting) - how do you know this?

And is it really truly an "Asian" parlor issue?
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I think Dateline had a show on it and also my uncle-in-law that was a Philly cop spoke about it

while there may be some legitimate "Asian Massage parlors" the large majority that advertise either in classifieds or craigslist type places are the fronts for prostitution (tip off is usually the table shower)

and, of course, there are non-Asian places that also do the same thing, Eastern Europeans usually
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Old 12-21-2011, 08:52 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Think I'll stick with the yellow pages...
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Old 12-21-2011, 09:22 AM   #24 (permalink)
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No actually, no holier than thou here from me.

There was a big "ring" out in LA where they got new graduate chiropractors to have chiropractic offices and they had 3-5 "massage therapists" in the back prostituting.

The poor new grad, desperate for work, signed on and a few lost their licenses when the operation was busted. They claimed ignorance but who knows what they knew what was going on. The police had to hang someone and it may as well be the chiropractor up front.

It made all the papers back in the 90's.

I honestly can't think of any DC in my area where that stuff is happening though and a lot of them have LMT's. Could it happen "below board?" Yeah, I suppose so. . .but I am not sure the average chiropractic office would afford the privacy of a "happy ending" you all seek. Maybe. . .just shut and lock the door of a treatment room, I guess. . .

I can remember one time one of my patients, who was a State Trooper, kept joking about me having a LMT in my office. He was kind of creepy about it.

Cops are one of the most frequent consumers of prostitutes and drugs IMO.

My LMT basically didn't want to work with him and he never asked. . .does make you think.

It is a SHAME the profession has become synonomous with prostitute.
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Old 12-21-2011, 09:35 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Huh! after I wrote that I noticed you are from California.

Were the happy ending chiropractic offices in the LA area? The whole profession was sooooo embarrassed when that scandal broke in the 90's. You can imagine. . .image is a huge sore topic for us.

I'm sure the clever business owners thought a chiropractic office would make a clever front and it probably did.

I have to tell ya. . .I'd have to be making a lot of money as a pimp before I'd risk my license, lol. . .but I have used the "Prostitute" analogy for my staff and copays when I discuss collections.

I tell them this: "Scannerguard Staff, you have to think of me like a prostitute. A prostitute collects the co-pay up front. . .because after you have performed the service (an alignment), the client will forget what you did for them.

Then, when they get a bill 30 days later, they sit there and look at the bill indignant they owe you.

They'll actually think they did YOU a favor, not the other way around." (that's the way Johns and Patients think)

So, yes. . .in a way, I tell my staff to think of all patients like Johns when it comes to the copay.

The medical doctor next door liked my analogy too.

Any service based business like healthcare: collect the money up front like a prostitute.

I don't have collection problems.

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During my first marriage, I must have averaged a visit of nearly once a week to Asian MP's and that was over a 6 year span, so, do the math.
Wow. Your wife was ok with this? Ew.
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Califguy:

Huh! after I wrote that I noticed you are from California.

Were the happy ending chiropractic offices in the LA area? The whole profession was sooooo embarrassed when that scandal broke in the 90's. You can imagine. . .image is a huge sore topic for us.

I'm sure the clever business owners thought a chiropractic office would make a clever front and it probably did.

I have to tell ya. . .I'd have to be making a lot of money as a pimp before I'd risk my license, lol. . .but I have used the "Prostitute" analogy for my staff and copays when I discuss collections.

I tell them this: "Scannerguard Staff, you have to think of me like a prostitute. A prostitute collects the co-pay up front. . .because after you have performed the service (an alignment), the client will forget what you did for them.

Then, when they get a bill 30 days later, they sit there and look at the bill indignant they owe you.

They'll actually think they did YOU a favor, not the other way around." (that's the way Johns and Patients think)

So, yes. . .in a way, I tell my staff to think of all patients like Johns when it comes to the copay.

The medical doctor next door liked my analogy too.

Any service based business like healthcare: collect the money up front like a prostitute.

I don't have collection problems.

My daughter is graduating in June from a 2 year RMT (Registered Massage Therapist) program. Sweet Lord what have I paid $20,000 worth of schooling for! FWIW, she will be working with a chiropractor not an Asian Parlour. She does cringe if I call her a masseuse. LOL
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I know we're off topic but hanjobs bore me.
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Old 12-30-2011, 02:26 PM   #29 (permalink)
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This message board gets wackier and wackier all the time. All you have to do is google asian massage and read to your hearts content.6 years, once a week? Check for holes in his brain. Wackier and wackier this place gets.
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Old 12-31-2011, 11:38 AM   #30 (permalink)
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my, ummmm, brother goes to asian massage all the time. He also gets the special treatment. My brother, what an ass

According to him the massage are cheap, because the girls expect you to hand them a wad of cash in return for a favour. Girls do much much more than just HJ's, and are very susceptible to spreading disease.

The only time one of these asian massage places gets raided is if an undercover cop, or off duty cop is offered extra service. The police will not be able to determine if you specifically have paid for services, so you wont be formally charged, but you could likely spend 24hrs in jail.

I also heard, that all of the ladies are very very nice, and I dont mean in a ****ty way. They are nice in a way that I wouldnt be comfortable purchasing sexual stimulation from them.
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