She's seen a doctor a few times. Hormones are ok, apparently. She did have issues with depression but not for quite a while as far as I know. Regardless during those time and now, nothing is different. We've has the tough talk where I laid it out and things improved...briefly. They only improve when I get angry. Waiting until I'm angry is such an awful tactic(and I've told her this).
My timeline? I would have told you we crossed it years ago. I just refuse to be without my kids. We all know fathers lose out. Even part-time parenting doesn't work for me. My kids are my raison d'etre, my everything. However, being this frustrated and miserable doesn't set a good example for them.
How old are your children?