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post #76 of 112 (permalink) Old 03-14-2017, 10:24 AM
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The thickness of the vaginal secretions changes and the taste changes during orgasm. The ejaculate when she squirts is a dead giveaway. It tastes salty as well but different.
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The thickness of the vaginal secretions changes and the taste changes during orgasm. The ejaculate when she squirts is a dead giveaway. It tastes salty as well but different.
Having experience of this I can assure you squirting is not always coincident with orgasm at all, therefore it is not a dead giveaway.

As to all of that thickness change etc and all the rest, that occurs as a woman gets closer, so again it is not coincident with having an orgasm.

If you really want to know with absolute certainty, have your finger inside a woman's backside before, through and after she has an orgasm.
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Having experience of this I can assure you squirting is not always coincident with orgasm at all, therefore it is not a dead giveaway.

As to all of that thickness change etc and all the rest, that occurs as a woman gets closer, so again it is not coincident with having an orgasm.

If you really want to know with absolute certainty, have your finger inside a woman's backside before, through and after she has an orgasm.
O shoot, now I need to go stick my finger in my butt. Never heard of this, need to test it out.
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Having experience of this I can assure you squirting is not always coincident with orgasm at all, therefore it is not a dead giveaway.

As to all of that thickness change etc and all the rest, that occurs as a woman gets closer, so again it is not coincident with having an orgasm.

If you really want to know with absolute certainty, have your finger inside a woman's backside before, through and after she has an orgasm.
I think its sad that so many here are so unsure about their wife/partners honesty they feel they must take such drastic action to make sure. If you are lying to each other that doesn't bode well.
I dont need a finger up my backside.
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The thickness of the vaginal secretions changes and the taste changes during orgasm. The ejaculate when she squirts is a dead giveaway. It tastes salty as well but different.
Oh my god, this made me laugh so hard! Thanks for the entertainment.
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O shoot, now I need to go stick my finger in my butt. Never heard of this, need to test it out.
You don't need to, it's not like you don't know when it happens for you.

I found this out by accident when I was 17, with my first sexual partner when I was giving her oral sex and I had my finger back there.

If you can get your partner to do this, you should enjoy where that knowledge will take you.

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What you will feel through your finger/s (one is sufficient) back there as they approach orgasm. Are a series of extremely fast micro spasms, so think of it as feeling a bit like a vibrator despite a vibrator not being used. Of which if I have my finger/s in a vagina instead I will not feel those micro spasms at all leading up to an orgasm.

Then as the woman gets closer to tipping over, you will feel those micro spasms becoming more frequent. unless she subsequently drifts away getting closer to an orgasm, where they will become less frequent and or stop.

When she does tip over to orgasm those micro spasm, will then turn into a succession of deep shuddering and throbbing pulses that you can feel through her rectum with some puckering as well.
Today I will often though not always do this as a guide, to get my wife to have an orgasm within a couple of minutes. Plus she also really likes it "wow", when I sometimes use my finger back there with a come here motion towards her vagina, while giving her oral sex.
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^^^

Oh and if one can't feel those micro spasms with a finger back there while performing oral. Change your technique, test and adjust.
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I hate to burst anyone's bubble, but ANYBODY can clench their anal sphincter at will. That theory proves nada. With that said, I do hope your wives are genuinely getting off rather than clenching their butt holes in order to get you off their bodies so they can go update their facebook statuses.
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I think its sad that so many here are so unsure about their wife/partners honesty they feel they must take such drastic action to make sure. If you are lying to each other that doesn't bode well.
I dont need a finger up my backside.
There aren't many who are participating in this discussion who are unsure.

Am I right to presume you are being hyperbolic?

There is nothing sad about the OP having a desire to help his sexual partner have an orgasm.

As to drastic action, there is nothing drastic in sharing some fun consensual digital anal play with sexually adventurous partners.

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I dont need a finger up my backside.
Clearly.

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I hate to burst anyone's bubble, but ANYBODY can clench their anal sphincter at will. That theory proves nada. With that said, I do hope your wives are genuinely getting off rather than clenching their butt holes in order to get you off their bodies so they can go update their facebook statuses.
Actually there is a significant difference in what a woman feels like when they are just clenching their butt hole, doing Kegels and on and on etc. Versus what a woman feels like when she is approaching and reaching an orgasm.

I have experience of doing this at least a few thousand times with different women over many years, and can assure you butt hole clenching never feels like an orgasm.

Evidently you have no actual experience of this, since if you did you would know that what I am saying is correct.

How about you actually test it, then get back to me.


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Actually there is a significant difference in what a woman feels like when they are just clenching their butt hole, doing Kegels and on and on etc. Versus what a woman feels like when she is approaching and reaching an orgasm.

I have experience of doing this at least a few thousand times with different women over many years, and can assure you butt hole clenching never feels like an orgasm.

Evidently you have no actual experience of this, since if you did you would know that what I am saying is correct.

How about you actually test it, then get back to me.
So do I...and I am totally laughing my ass off at you. Sorry, Dr. Love.
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So do I...and I am totally laughing my ass off at you. Sorry, Dr. Love.
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Be honest.

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside while she orgasms?

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside when she is doing Kegels?

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside when she is just clenching her "butt hole"?
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And to be clear, for the sake of your wives and you and your relationships...I do actually hope that they are being honest with you concerning their orgasms. But it doesn't bode well that somebody has to start a thread on how to tell if their wife/gf is having a "sure-fire" orgasm...why on earth would you all not talk about it? Or know?
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Be honest.

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside while she orgasms?

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside when she is doing Kegels?

Have you ever actually had a finger inside a woman's backside when she is just clenching her "butt hole"?
I have had my digits everywhere in a woman...but I have never had to guess online if she'd actually orgasmed. That's the difference between you and I.
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I have had my digits everywhere in a woman...but I have never had to guess online if she'd actually orgasmed. That's the difference between you and I.
So you have had your fingers in there, yet not when you or another woman has been doing Kegels, "butt hole" clenching versus during orgasm?

So you have no idea then.

As to guessing online, you are confusing me with the OP who started this thread regarding a concern that his partner might be gilding the lily.

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