Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Improve my sex life
Although I am 65 now, I have not had intercourse for longer than my wife and I can remember. Maybe 20+ years is a good guess. My wife has medical issues and we found out that we are both sterile so there was no reason for intercourse. We both prefer oral anyway and are good at it. In the end all that matters are good orgasms and there is more than one way to skin a cat. I lived with my wife and a shared girlfriend that hung around for 30 years and enjoyed sex with me so much that ever after she got married she continued to have sex with me, with her husband approval which is another story. Our girlfriend specifically looked for a man that was OK with her continuing her relationship with me.
Enough of the history. My point is that I sexually satisfied two women enough for them to keep coming back for more. Even after out girlfriend got married she still came to me for sex with her husband's knowledge. Most times I did not use my penis to give them great orgasms. A vaginal canal is about 5-6 inches anyway, before you enter the cervix territory which has less nerve endings. Many, if not most women, get their orgasms from clitorial stimulation which does not need a long penis. Girth will help but so will sexual positions that put your penis in more direct contact with her clitoris. As you can see from my life, you can still have a great sex life and marriage without intercourse. You have an average sized penis which is what most women studied have selected when asked to pick a 3D model of a penis they are happy with. 5-6" dildos sell more than all the other lengths combined so you are right in the sweet spot.
Yes, some women are stretched out after having a baby. I could tell the difference between my wife and our girlfriend who had a baby while my wife did not. Did not matter to me because I always found a way to make them scream. There are many fetishes that do not involve intercourse, and if my experience is correct, most girls have better orgasms with a vibrator. You can even see vibrators being used or laying around in porn videos now. Try sex toys. My wife and our former girlfriend love their vibrators for masturbation and sometimes used them when they wanted more orgasms than I gave them. I did not care.
I also believe, as do many sex therapist, that we are all responsible for our own orgasms. Use sexual positions, like cowgirl, that allow your wife to use her hands or a vibrator during intercourse. She should do whatever it takes to reach an orgasm as should you. The world is filled with women who had children and are not as tight as they used to be. Yet they find ways to have a good sex life.
You are adequately equipped to give your wife intense orgasms in various ways. I am 65 and have ED. I ordered 100 generic Viagra pills from India at a cost of $100 a pill. Then I cut them in half and have enough for almost two years. They work just as well as the $35 name brand Viagra does. I have been buying generic Viagra for almost as long as Viagra has been available without any problems. Try to find a story about anyone who was harmed by using genetic Viagra impoted. In Europe Generic Viagra is legal so all those websites just buy from the companies making the generic Viagra for the European market. So you can take care of the ED problem cheaply and easily. You have to ask your wife to tell you what works or not. Encourage her to give you feedback and go from there. My wife knows what buttons to press on me and I know which to press on her. Good communication is the secret to great sex. Do not forget that your brain is your largest sex organ. I can arouse women by what I say to them. It is something I learned early in my sex life from a woman who taught me. Good luck.
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