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post #16 of 22 (permalink) Old 02-23-2017, 01:13 PM
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Re: Side effects of too much sex?

My God man you over complicate things.

The side effect of not enough sex seems to be that it leaves too much free time to ponder the complexities of life down to the n'th degree.
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My God man you over complicate things.

The side effect of not enough sex seems to be that it leaves too much free time to ponder the complexities of life down to the n'th degree.
Sounds like you and my wife could be best friends!
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Sounds like you and my wife could be best friends!
Well I would take a guess that your wife is quite an interesting and fun woman so yeah we may well get along great (I'm a bit of a Woman's Woman anyway and love the company of good women). But we are total opposites when it comes to expressing our sexuality. So friends would be good but I tend to talk about sex with my besties so we would not have that in common.

She does deserve an award though for putting up with you
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As I had mentioned those into BDSM usually understand aftercare. How do you think your relationship would feel if your partner was did not provide that for you? For the purpose of this question imagine a partner that would become needy instead pf giving while you are coming down. As in he suddenly wants his back scratched and then promptly passes out.
If my partner did that, I would be hurt and pissed quite honestly. Some scenes can get not only intense, but physically exhausting, it can take alot out of your body. I enjoy it, yes, but he knows the effort I put in is immense. If he just rolled over and was done with me. I'd be done with him too, pretty damn fast, and permanent.
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If my partner did that, I would be hurt and pissed quite honestly. Some scenes can get not only intense, but physically exhausting, it can take alot out of your body. I enjoy it, yes, but he knows the effort I put in is immense. If he just rolled over and was done with me. I'd be done with him too, pretty damn fast, and permanent.
Thanks for taking the time to reply and sharing that! To be honest it is probably more common than you think in relationships for one partner to quickly withdraw just after climax, BUT as a couple many are not aware of how difficult that is to accept for another partner that needs affection and care afterwards! But of course scale everything down to just a quick tryst for a few minutes to release some tension, and that need is not as immense but yet it is still there...
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Thanks for taking the time to reply and sharing that! To be honest it is probably more common than you think in relationships for one partner to quickly withdraw just after climax, BUT as a couple many are not aware of how difficult that is to accept for another partner that needs affection and care afterwards! But of course scale everything down to just a quick tryst for a few minutes to release some tension, and that need is not as immense but yet it is still there...
No problem and I agree. Having a quickie is one thing, but I still expect him to stay. If he leapt to his feet to flee, I'd still be upset. Unless we were under some sort of understood time crunch.

That being said, BDSM relationships or not, care and appreciation afterward should still be expected and enjoyed. It's not normal, in my opinion, to go from a very intimate session to immediately ignoring each other. Yuck. Talk about a **** and chuck. No thank you!
Basque in the afterglow together, bonding doesn't need a time frame. Make it any every day every way thing.
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I don't think I have ever had sex more than 5X in a week. So sad.

So, no idea what the effects of too much sex would be.
Don't let it make you discontent with what you have, that's far more than many people, and for many its more about the quality than the quantity anyway. I would far rather have good sex once or twice a week, than selfish quick sex every day.
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