Re: The hotwife fantasy
I also vote for leaving this as a fantasy.
My H and I often shared fantasies or told each other stories during sex...
Our favorite was the FFM fantasy. I am bicurious so it was a very hot fantasy for us both. The only times I ever felt awkward was when he would talk about wanting to make it actually happen. We never did act on it, but found other ways to scratch that itch (sharing lap dances at a strip club for example).
In fantasy, nothing goes wrong... IRL anything can and usually does go wrong.
I've never been particularly jealous... I was honestly worried he would feel more left out than me, lol. The idea of watching him with another faceless woman was a turn on. But IRL... the third party isn't faceless,and I'd probably want to claw her eyes out!
I see no harm in sharing the fantasy, but be sure to make it clear you are not pressuring her.
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