Re: The hotwife fantasy
As someone who actively lives the lifestyle, I can say this:
1. Being open and honest is a must not only for the lifestyle, but marriage in general. It took me years before I was truthful to her about my greatest fantasy.
2. The fantasy is much easier than the initial emotional wave of the reality (at least in my case).
3. There needs to be guidelines and discussion, before and after....(our expectations adjusted based on the "play")
4. I very much doubt it is for everyone, but at least in my personal case, I have a kink and my beautiful wife is in to it as well.
5. Understand the risks and strength of your relationship...our risk was small as our marriage is very strong. If at any moment it feels like it isn't a kinky addition to our marriage, we're both not interested.
6. The reconnecting after her dates (with stories, pics and sometimes vids) is the most intense and aggressive sexual experience we have together....we literally pounce on each other as soon as she's home.
If you have any questions, I can attempt to answer.
I know our marriage isn't for everyone, just like we are not for everyone, but it is fun at the moment and for us that's life, moments of fun.
Last edited by ThatGuy2719; 04-28-2017 at 02:57 PM.