Re: The hotwife fantasy
As a fantasy, you can still have fun with it. Probably NOT a good thing to take into reality unless you have experience with something like ordinary swinging, and it went very well, with no jealousy issues, etc. I knew one couple who were into this, and they had fun with it for a number of years. They weren't married, though, and eventually she tired of it while he did not. They split up - very amicably. He found another gf into the hot wife scenario, though, and they eventually married. I don't know if they still pursue this, however. Knowing them both, though, I'd guess not.
Love is an ideal thing; marriage is a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes unpunished. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
CELIBACY IS NOT HEREDITARY.