Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Edging: Do you do it?
My wife and I have been into chastity play going on 5 years so edging is only what I get most times rather than an orgasm. My wife gets to have an orgasm at anytime, anyway without having to reciprocate. However, she loves to hear me moan in sexual frustration. Although we used to deny me for up to 4 months, it was basically just to see how long I could go without an orgasm. These days I am denied an orgasm between 1-3 weeks. It is really like tantric sex where you have sex as you normally do but all that is missing is the 10 seconds of my orgasm. Other than that we have sex like everyone else but I do get edged for up to an hour and kept there by my wife who is very good at it. Yes, I do wear a custom made chastity cage 24/7. Despite fantasy posts to the contrary, I can give myself an orgasm and can escape. I am not forced but rather asked for this when my wife wanted to tease and deny me for longer periods of time than my will power could handle. After a few years I got very used to wearing it like I did with my wedding band. I mostly wear it because it rubs against me all day and night which keeps me sexually aroused 24/7. I feed off of that sexual energy and am addicted to the anticipation of an orgasm, more than the orgasm itself.
Remember the days when you were single and getting ready for a date with a girl who you just met? You did not know if you would have sex that night and were horny as heck since you had not been with a woman for awhile, that is how it is every time we have sex. I shower and shave to get ready for the evening and my wife and I make love but whether or not I get to orgasm is up to her and she dearly loves to deny me. I remain sexually excited until the next time we have sex, still not knowing if I can oragsm or not. I thought it was stupid until I tried it and the orgasms, when I am given them, are so spectacularly intense that they border on painful. Getting edged a few times a week with no orgasm for a few weeks will blow your mind.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.
Last edited by Vinnydee; 02-28-2017 at 10:00 AM.