Re: This is a test, this is only a test!
My wife and I have gone over a year without sex. More than once. The first time I asked for sex often and got rejected. The second time (15 years later) I did not initiate and she tried once or twice about a year into the "drought", at which point I was no longer interested and turned her down. So if you are asking how long someone can go without sex while married, the answer can be "a LONG time".
Talk to your wife. Tell her that you are there for her. Make it clear that you will give her space if she needs it, but you are available for her to offload some of her pain and fear if that is what she wants. Provide her with non-sexual touch if she is open to that. Keep the touching and communication going even if there is no sex. Most likely, the touching will eventually lead to sex. How long until then? No one can say.
When you can see it coming, duck!
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Last edited by Holdingontoit; 02-27-2017 at 06:24 PM.