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post #31 of 32 (permalink) Old 03-19-2017, 12:37 AM
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Re: Building sexual tension

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I think that while the OP can appreciate that, however it is being asked as to what would you do if you woke up one day to find that spark was no longer "just there" anymore.

Perhaps you don't like games, but confidence when combined with playfulness in a way that is fun and nurturing towards the other partner's libido can not only create a spark but it can take you places that you never could have anticipated.
This does not actually relate to my post at all. You said "we all want what we think we cannot have", simply saying this is not true for ALL of us. Absolutely not true for me.

As for confidence, playfulness etc yes this is a huge part of life here. We love role play, light bondage etc however mind games are of no interest for either MrH or myself.
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This does not actually relate to my post at all. You said "we all want what we think we cannot have", simply saying this is not true for ALL of us. Absolutely not true for me.
I can agree with you. Regarding "we all want what we think we cannot have" I meant that as a form of playful overtones used in mild role play. The OP said:

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For us, we see delayed gratification as one of the biggest builders of sexual tension.
Sometimes "delayed gratification" can simply mean taking your time not being in too big of a hurry. And some mild teasing can create an essence of thinking you can't have something while at the same time you know you partner is not withholding anything. It is about just taking your time and being playful.

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