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post #1 of 27 (permalink) Old 03-04-2017, 06:22 AM Thread Starter
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ok wives, if you give it up the night before out of obligation and not real desire, do you want a thank you the next morning? an apology?
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ok wives, if you give it up the night before out of obligation and not real desire, do you want a thank you the next morning? an apology?
In other words let's **** now and make love in the morning.
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There has been many a morning where we just continue from the night before.
Usually followed by her making coffee and me going out to get bagels.
And, if we aren't going in to work that day, "Wake and bake"
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Does she hate sex?

Does she hate you?

Did she do something spectacular and totally fantastic?

Did she provide pity sex even though it caused her great pain?

G, are you still trying to find the right combination of tricks to get her to happily have sex with you?

Personally, I expect a thank you as soon as sight returns to his eyes when I go above and beyond. Followed by a sincere apology that he remains unworthy...

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Love dirty messy animalistic love making...

Ah, the days of early love and you can do 4~6 rounds in a 24 hour period.

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ok wives, if you give it up the night before out of obligation and not real desire, do you want a thank you the next morning? an apology?
I would never have sex out of obligation, so cannot answer your question.

I think that the reason you are asking this question if far more important than any answer to your question anyone on this forum could give you.
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Does she hate sex?

Does she hate you?

Did she do something spectacular and totally fantastic?

Did she provide pity sex even though it caused her great pain?

G, are you still trying to find the right combination of tricks to get her to happily have sex with you?

Personally, I expect a thank you as soon as sight returns to his eyes when I go above and beyond. Followed by a sincere apology that he remains unworthy...
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I do not know what you would call it, but my ex fiancee cheated on me when I was in combat for a year. We broke up 6 months before I came home and she let me stay with her for two weeks, and mostly had sex. She felt that she owed me that and I was horny as heck after a year with no women so I accepted her offer. I always thanked her even though she cheated on me and I took the engagement ring back. I have always felt that when a woman shares her body with me, it is a trust and a gift. I always thanked her, as I continue to do with my wife. I have even been thanked by a few women myself.

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Years of obligatory Saturday AM sex has got me down, might as well set an alarm. No apology necessary, no eye contact either, its awful.

I remember one hand job in particular she was watching TV not even paying attention then she asks me
"Oh did you cum"? BAwhahaha yep its that bad.
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Any sex is better than no sex. Haruump!
Really? I can't say I agree. In fact, I've turned down or walked away from bad sex many times. Make it worth my while or don't bother.

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Years of obligatory Saturday AM sex has got me down, might as well set an alarm. No apology necessary, no eye contact either, its awful.

I remember one hand job in particular she was watching TV not even paying attention then she asks me
"Oh did you cum"? BAwhahaha yep its that bad.
You get what you accept in life. If your standards are that low, then that's what you'll get.
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Does she hate sex?

Does she hate you?

Did she do something spectacular and totally fantastic?

Did she provide pity sex even though it caused her great pain?

G, are you still trying to find the right combination of tricks to get her to happily have sex with you?

Personally, I expect a thank you as soon as sight returns to his eyes when I go above and beyond. Followed by a sincere apology that he remains unworthy...
"Does she hate you?" lol

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I alway thank a woman no matter what the circumstances. I am old fashioned that way. When someone is willing to show me their naked body and allow me to penetrate them, it is a special gift and I am thankful for it.

Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality.
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I alway thank a woman no matter what the circumstances. I am old fashioned that way. When someone is willing to show me their naked body and allow me to penetrate them, it is a special gift and I am thankful for it.


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I can't recall ever thanking any woman for sex.

Until I read about such things here on TAM a good while ago, I didn't know it was something people did.
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I can't recall ever thanking any woman for sex.

Until I read about such things here on TAM a good while ago, I didn't know it was something people did.
It is funny isn't it how some choose to live their lives? Obligation sex, sexless, no oral, no desire, having to thank for sex or an apology? I knew these things existed before tam but didn't know people tolerated this much. The apology is a new one lol
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