Re: Oral sex and foreplay
I have been off the board for a couple of days and just read through the many replies. Thank you very much for your input. To answer some of your questions.
Yes, my hands are clean and fingernails trimmed. No calluses. I am a bit of a clean freak, so I know cleanliness couldn't possibly be an issue.
I have tried to slowly insert one finger while licking her, but on each attempt she jumped up and said 'No!'. Trust me, it was a real mood killer.
I've tried to slowly massage her and let her watch me insert the tip of my finger, but she yanks my hand away.
One time I asked her to finger herself while I was licking her. She did it for about five seconds, stopped, and said she hated it.
Some respondents have dogged me for saying this is turning into a deal breaker, so to those I ask, why should I endure of life of unsatisfactory sex? I miss the enormous turn on I get from feeling the warmth and wetness of a vagina: massaging that one particular place that makes a woman melt and become crazy with passion. I don't see how that is too big of an ask.