Re: When lube is NOT optional
Post menopausal woman who has used coconut oil after trying and hating many other brands out there.
I use coconut oil every damn time. Before we have sex I alway empty my bladder and once back in the bedroom I take my jar of coconut oil after I've removed my nightgown, open the jar and while looking right into his eyes I scoop out a glob, lift a leg on the bed and start spreading it around. Sometimes I take a LOOOOONG time to spread it around and I have to go back and get more. Sometimes I spread it on him too. Sometimes I am rudely interrupted while I'm still spreading it.
You could stand over your husband while you spread it, you could wait till his uses the bathroom and then let him walk out finding your spread eagle and spreading the lube (my husband's fav) you could spread it on him and then shimmy your lady bits all over picking up the lube from his body.
There have been a few times my body has almost generated enough lubrication but I find that more lube is always better than less lube.
"Some women are blessed with multi-orgasmic ability for a reason and I'm damn sure not going to waste a blessing" ~FrenchFry
"Vaginas are tricky creatures." ~Lucy999