32 year old female, married 4 years. I just don't like sex much. I don't want it, and my husband thinks it's a sign I don't love him. I've explained that I don't want to, when I try to fake interest he can tell. I think he just wants me to want it, and I can't. I try to get in the mood, but it goes away before we get anywhere. It's making him very bitter and he makes snide comments about how he shouldn't even try because I never want it. I'm not doing this on purpose, I'm willing to have sex just to let him enjoy it, but he doesn't want that. What on earth can I do?
Go to the doctor, have a physical and find out if you have any issues, hormonal, etc.
Tell the doctor you don't have a sex drive.
Scary thing is, you're only 32 and in your prime. You should be wanting sex all the time, instead of nothing.
Most men are physical, visual and sexual.That means we need that physical and sexual connection with our ladies and the more the better.
By your hubby noticing you aren't into sex at all, is going to have real consequences for your marriage, with possible divorce in the end.
You need to see a doctor, find out if anything is wrong, perhaps get some meds and get your sex drive back.
The worse thing you can do, is allowing your hubby to notice you couldn't care less for sex and its only to please him.
Have you considered buying sex toys for yourself, to give you great orgasms and go from there, to get your sex drive going?
If you decide to do nothing about this, it could very well lead to being single.