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Re: Can we lead married life without sex?

It might help if you tell us what country you are from.
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Also you say his health is not good. What is the health problem? Maybe his health has something to do with his not being able to get hard or to stay hard.
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I am from a country where marriage is meant to be followed strictly whatever comes in the way and divorce is not considered as good thing and if I get divorced then I will only be treated as wrong because of my past.
It will be considered that I am having some affair and I am fooling all about my husband's health issue.
Not only society but even my parents and siblings are confused because my relatives are purpusly trying to prove that I am wrong.

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At start my parents and siblings supported me but now after an another year and two hearings in the court slowly my relatives are spreading that I am wrong and now my siblings and my mom and even my dad are feeling that I am wrong and I am lying

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But still my parents wants me to get divorced now as my husband is not coming forward and my parents have said in society that my husband is impotent but no one is trusting this not even my parents and siblings.

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My husband and I are from far cities so what people are thinking in my city doesn't affect him and I have not revealed to his friends or not to his society people that he is impotent though he wanted me to do so then everyone will think that I am lying because since starting of our marriage he is proving to people in his city that I am not good and I am not allowing him to get close to me.

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It sounds like you are in a horrible situation and don't seem to have any good options. I'm sorry you are going through this, but I don't know what to tell you to do to fix it. Do you have a religious leader you can go talk to?
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My dad spoke to our society people,actually all are supporting divorce but behind us they are blaming me not my husband

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All this is bcs of my past but whatever is happening if I keep aside, I want my husband to be there for me, I can adjust his health issue and we can have baby through ivf but I don't want drama from my husband because I am fed up of all that drama where I am wrong in any case.

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It sounds like you are in a horrible situation and don't seem to have any good options. I'm sorry you are going through this, but I don't know what to tell you to do to fix it. Do you have a religious leader you can go talk to?
Do you trust me?right now I don't have anyone who trusts me.that's why I started to post in this app.I am feeling very much left alone by all.no one is there to trust me.all are making fun of me.and even my dad is suffering for me.my mom is not trusting me now.

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All wants me to get divorced and be blamed for life long that I am not good .

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So I am trying to talk to my husband but he is not at all talking to me

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What happened in your past that is causing them to blame you?
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Past means I was having an affair when I was in school,my bf spread to all that I am with him in society and all came to know about this but after that we broke up and I did my degree and post graduate but unfortunately I was engaged to a wrong person he was having affairs so my parents broke my engagement with him but here also I was blamed that because of my affair in school my engagement is cancelled,actually all were thinking that my school affair is continue because my bf was purpusly following me in market so all thinks it's not over but it was over in school only.
So I was having an affair in school which got over then only but all thinks it was continued and after my degree my Parents cancelled my engagement but for this also all blame me that because of my school affair it got cancelled and then I did post graduate and I was talking to a only guy who was my best friend's friend as I was talking to him I was a bit trusting him. until now because of my experiences I was not able to trust anyone not myself also and I had lost confidence and again marrying to some one was also a big deal for me so before my marriage I just once asked to this friend of mine that weather he has any feelings for me and he said no so I didn't thought after that about him and I moved on and married to my husband and all his health issue came in picture.

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And now I am fed up of all this.I don't have any interest in my life.I was very good in study in my school days but after that incident I lost my image in society and in my dad's eyes.my dad was lot supportive and lot caring he changed his behavior for me and I lost interest in my life.
So now I am thinking why to Marry someone else because always bad things are happening in my life and this divorce will also spoil my name and my dad's name in society so I am trying to adjust with my husband. Actually it's my fault I should not have raised my husband health issue.

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